Thursday, January 2, 2014

New Year’s Resolutions – It isn’t over ‘til it’s over!




 The New Year has arrived!  Welcome 2014! 

I know, I know… the SECULAR New Year.  But I’m Jewish! Isn’t our New Year at Rosh Hashana?  Truth be told, “New Year” as a holiday does not exist in the Torah!  Instead, we have FOUR New Years.  Rosh Hashana, for calculating calendar years; Tu B’shevat, the “new year” for trees; the first of Nisan is the calendar “new year” for reckoning festivals; and the first day of Elul is the “new year” for animal tithes!

We Jews observe Rosh Hashana as the “Head of the Year” and associate it with dipping apples in honey as well as Teshuva, asking for forgiveness for a multitude of commissions and omissions.  There is a ten day window of opportunity, with Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, the last day to “make it right” before the “Gates of Heaven” slam shut. 

Repentance is hard work, and it isn’t as much fun as sitting in front of your TV and toasting the New Year with a bit of the bubbly as a gigantic Waterford Crystal ball descends on Time Square, accompanied by 50 tons of confetti!

Fortunately, as Jews, we have two opportunities to “get it right.”  We can work on the religious items while observing the Jewish New Year and the more mundane items for the secular New Year.  The Jewish New Year allows for a clean spiritual slate.  The secular New Year sets our imagination on the future and challenges us to make positive, personal choices. “New Year’s Resolutions!” We can identify some resolutions through statistical data. Health Club memberships soar (“get healthy in the coming year”) as do sales for Rosetta Stone. (“ I will learn Mandarin Chinese or French or Hebrew this year”)

It’s not that we set ourselves up for failure with these noble resolutions, but before the month is out, most resolutions fall by the wayside. Perhaps it is so difficult to keep these resolutions because we ask too much of ourselves at one time. Along with the ‘big’ resolutions, tuck in a few that are doable… like flossing every night or making sure to put a few coins in a Tzedahkah box every Friday night.  And if you “fall off the horse” just forgive yourself and get back on!  There are 365 days in the year, and each day is a chance to do better than the day before.

With that in mind, I’d like to leave you with sage advice from Reb Nachman of Bratzlav, as relevant today as over 200 years ago when he spoke these words:

“If you are not going to be better tomorrow than you are today,
then what do you need tomorrow for?”

Gary and I wish each one of you a happy, healthy and prosperous year.  We have had a wonderful year with FJC, filled with warmth and friendship, and the excitement of watching our congregation grow! May God give each and every one of us the wisdom and compassion to sustain each other as a Kehilla Kedosha, a holy community, in 2014,

Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Rose

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