Thursday, November 20, 2014

"Mother always loved YOU Best!" (hats off to the Smothers Brothers)


Welcome to...
This week's Torah portion
Toldot
Genesis 25:19 - 28:9

JUST IN TIME FOR THANKSGIVING!  A Tale of sibling in-fighting and rivalry!
The story of Jacob and Esau!
Isaac & Rebecca give birth to twins! Mazel tov. However Esau, the hairy one, is the first born. Holding on to his heel is Jacob (ee-keb, meaning heel)... whose name also contains the three root letters used in the words "to follow," "to be behind."  Those same root letters are also in the words "to supplant, circumvent, assail, and overreach." As we already know from our readings, NAMES always have meaning!

Once again... the rules of primogeniture are thrown out the window... as Isaac is tricked into giving the birthright and blessing to Jacob... and not Esau.

A lot of modern day land politics is contained in this portion.

Friday, October 10, 2014

Thoughts For Yom Kippur - 2014


At the start of my Rosh Hashanah sermon, I promised a Yom Kippur sermon filled with references to Hamas, ISIS, the fluctuating crisis in Israel, Global Anti-Semitism, Tense American-Israeli relations, skewed coverage of Israel in the press, anti-Israel lobbies and pro-Palestinian academics on College campuses... I know these are difficult subjects to cover in under eight minutes, but just stating this laundry list of tzuris is important...Why? Because sticking our heads in the sand won’t make them go away.  Vigorous debate won’t make them go away. Logic, and protests and letters to the editor won’t make them go away. And certainly, reading opinions that mimic our own beliefs won’t make them go away. 

        This is what it is to be Jewish. This is, with all of our intellect, with all our contributions to society, to science, music, to literature, to medicine, to building blocks of the technological age...with all the gifts of law, and justice that the Jewish people have given the world... this is what it is to be Jewish... to experience, once again, the “surprise” that the world doesn’t get it.  To find out, once again, as we did in Europe before World War II that civilization doesn’t necessarily move forward. And when faced with dogmatic ideology, logic doesn’t usually work.

        My words today are not meant to stir debate.  I have no interest in debate, and I’m not very good at it. My words today are not even a call to action.  I just want you to think.  To think very hard, what you will tell your grandchildren and your great grandchildren about this time in our history.  When they ask “what did you do” or “what did you know”, or “how could it happen” or even “what were you thinking.”.. what will you answer?” Philosopher, essayist and poet, George Santayana, wrote "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.".  How strange that with all the volumes written on Jewish History, history still repeats itself, again and again. But for some unaccountable reason we think it will be different. This time we should know better. And maybe this time we shouldn’t be our own worst enemy.

        When future generations look back at this pivotal time in history, perhaps they will read the text of the prophetic speech that Benjamin Netanyahu delivered tin New York at the United Nations this past week. Speaking to a nearly empty room, he gave us a glimpse of the future should we not head the threat of militant Islam’s mission to upend the world as we know it.

To say that American Jews, are uncomfortable with current events is an understatement. But in many corners, the silence is deafening. Friends of mine from Miami went up to New York City to spend the holiday with their children.  On the first day they accompanied one daughter and spouse to their Reform congregation.  On the second day, they accompanied their other daughter and spouse to their Modern Orthodox congregation.  I could tell from my friend Paul’s hesitant tone on the phone that something was wrong.

“There wasn’t a mention of Israel at either service.  Not a prayer for Israel.  Not a word.  The Reform congregation was so far left, I got the feeling that if the rabbi had started to say a prayer for Israel, half the congregation would have walked out.” 

        The Orthodox service left him just as cold. But as a Jew and as a Rabbi I can’t remain mute on the subject of Israel, anti-Zionism and it’s wicked off-spring, Anti-Semitism. I can’t for one simple reason. History. How will History interpret this period of time?  How will future social historians explain our actions, our inaction, our beliefs and our disbeliefs both as Americans and Jews?  And who will write that history? Maybe the same historians who say the Holocaust never happened, or that the number of victims is grossly inflated.

        There are three places where anti-Zionism enters mainstream America and quickly metastasizes, often with the assistance of the media: Politics, Art and the college campuses. In each of these venues, there are Jews –however they define their identity who, in the name of free speech, open debate and first amendment rights, disregard the danger to Israel, Jewish Americans and themselves.

        Our kids have just headed off to college for the fall semester. This should be a time of exploration,  learning, and fun... that is why we sent them. Campus Watch, an organization that shines a light on Middle East policy on American campuses does a good job on keeping us informed. The message coming from their monitoring of campus climate pretty much across the board is this: “Don’t become pro Israel, or we’ll become anti-Semitic.”  

Young Jews on campus come face to face with the hateful and skewed beliefs of BDS, a policy of Boycott, Divestment & Sanctions against Israel. Hundreds of anti-Israel academicians have called on their colleagues to “boycott Israeli academic institutions and pledged, not to collaborate on projects and events involving Israeli academic institutions, not to teach at or attend conference and other events at such institutions, and not to publish in academic journals based in Israel.

How can professors who are so biased against the Jewish state accurately or fairly teach students about Israel or the Middle East? And what will pass for truth in their classrooms?

Even more troubling, however, is how many of these academics are affiliated with National Resource Centers (NRC) on their campuses. These Middle Eastern studies centers are located at Duke, two at Georgetown and at NYU. They are Federally funded by Title VI of the Civil Rights Act.

         The State of Israel is also deeply worried about what is happening on American campuses.  In anticipation of the likelihood of anti-Israel campus activism getting worse in the new academic year, Israel’s Jewish Agency is sending some 70 Israel Fellows as emissaries to serve on 80 campuses in North America . They will help to support the students and will provide advocacy programming and materials.

        I would like to go from the campus to the arts.  On September 21, hundreds protesters gathered outside the Metropolitan Opera House for a demonstration calling for the company to cancel its production of John Adams’s 1991 opera, “The Death of Klinghoffer,” which is to have its Met premiere next month. The opera depicts a 1985 cruise ship hijacking by members of the Palestine Liberation Organization, and the killing of a wheel chair bound Jewish American passenger, Leon Klinghoffer. I’ll let you Google this one.... but leave it to say, it isn’t called the MURDER of Klinghoffer... but rather the DEATH of Klinghoffer.  The Palestinian terrorists are given a voice to sing their grievances and promote their cause. The terrorists and are given a moral equivalency in the libretto, and from what I’ve read, the Palestinians get the best tunes. The lyrics, in the Death of Klinghoffer are about as controversial as you can get. I shall illustrate the point. One of the terrorists sings: “Wherever poor men are gathered /they can find Jews getting fat. You know how to cheat the simple, exploit the virgin, pollute where you have exploited / Defame those you cheated / and break your own law with idolatry.” It is beyond my capacity to understand how anyone could actually write, let alone SING such anti-Semitic lyrics.  I can barely wrap my head around the knowledge that these were were written by a Midwestern American Jew, Alice Goodman, a poet, writer and librettist who felt that she had written something great in Klinghoffer.  She hasn’t been hired for a commission since. Halfway through writing Klinghoffer, Alice became a Christian.  She lives in near anonymity in England and is now an Anglican Vicar. And her twisted, misinformed words will live on forever.

        The final words of the opera are sung by Klinghoffer’s wife. Here are Alice Goodman’s eerily prophetic lyrics:

If a hundred People were murdered/ And their blood Flowed in the wake Of this ship like Oil,  only then Would the world intervene.




        I leave you today, with a story, a timeless fable found in almost every culture and therefore a fable known to every member of the United Nations. Forty-seven years ago, the Reader’s Digest published this version of the fable from Lebanon.  

        A scorpion on the banks of the Nile asks a frog to ferry him to the other side. The frog, being totally aware of the danger, logically rejects the request. "Oh no," You would sting me and I would drown.”
"That's ridiculous," the scorpion replies,’ with great conviction ‘where’s the logic in that, if I did that I too would drown!" Convinced by the sincerity of the response, and not wanting to appear prejudiced, the frog took the scorpion on his back and began to swim across the river. In midstream, the scorpion's lethal urge became too strong and he plunged his stinger into the frog's neck. The sinking frog groaned, "Why, why?" The scorpion gave his final shrug and replied, Because, this is the Middle East."

        Like the frog in our fable, even though logic tells us we will be stung.... we forge ahead thinking that this time it will be different.   But no amount of compromise, discussion, or logic can influence or change the outcome. And that is one of the morals of our fable: When it comes to those who are wholly irredeemable, there can only be one outcome. It is the nature of the beast.  But there is a second moral to the story which is, that blame for the demise is not laid upon the perpetrator, but rather on the victim for choosing not to accept what his logical mind recognized and understood to be true but chose not to believe: "You knew what I was when you found me."  

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Double Torah Portion - Nitzavim -Va-ye'lekh


Through all the closing chapters of the Torah, we are admonished to, when all our options are set before us, to choose Life and not Death.  This week, among other things, we are also admonished to be wary about those among us who are tempted and seduced by other cultures and may worship "stones & silver & gold."   
 
Almost everything we read this week is aimed at the future.  This generation is merely the bow that will shoot arrows into the future... and each generation in kind will do the same thing.  We are given all the tools and wisdom we need... but how will we choose? 

Judaism is obsessed with the future, unlike the other cultures of the time that were "death oriented". Think of Egypt's pyramids, which held elaborate tombs decked out for the afterlife. A pharaoh could literally spend his entire life preparing for death.  But God wants something different for us.  God gives life so that it may be lived... and the Torah is the guide book AND the play book that gives life meaning.
 
Yes, there is room in Judaism for belief in the afterlife and "the world to come" but it is not the focus of our daily lives.  Our view of eternal life is knowing that "we" as a people, will carry on. The message: HOW we carry out God's plan via His teachings and how we "pay it forward" that determines our longevity and legacy, not placating gods of stone, silver and gold.  
Gary and I wish all of you a Shana Tova, and may you be written for a good life!

Saturday, August 23, 2014

This Weeks Torah Portion - R'eih, Deuteronomy, 11:26 - 16:17


In this week's portion R'eih in the Book of Deuteronomy, 11:26 - 16:17 God gives us a clear cut choice-- "See, this day I set before you blessing and curse: blessing, if you obey the commandments of the Lord your God that I enjoin upon you this day;  and curse, if you do not obey the commandments of the Lord your God, but turn away from the path that I enjoin upon you this day and follow other gods, whom you have not experienced. " 

Moses then goes on to reiterate the Laws of Kashrut, rules about sacrifices, laws regarding freeing slaves in the Jubilee year, and all sorts of things that are required to make the choice of a blessing, instead of a curse. Mostly, he admonishes them to not fraternize with the "other." Everything is condensed and urgent as Moses approaches his death.

When we talk about the Chosen People, a chapter like this one reinforces the idea that our fate is in our own hands, and our lives are either blessed or cursed by by our willingness to accept our status as "Chosen".  We must,  therefore, CHOOSE to be chosen. We must accept the yoke of appropriate behavior which God demands of us... for that is the true meaning of being the Chosen People.

Friday, August 15, 2014

Eikev: Deuteronomy 7:12 - 11:25

In this week's Parasha, Eikev, Moses continues with his recap of the events of the last forty years and then makes it extremely clear that God will facilitate the destruction of the people inhabiting the Promised Land not because the Jews are so good, but because the others are so evil!

 A good chunk of time is spent reminding the Israelites that they are "a stiff-necked people."  Moses lists every single time they gave him "push back" and lets them know that God wants them to "cut away" this hardness from their hearts and "be a stiff-necked people no more."  From this comes the oft confusing phrase, to "circumcise your heart" as the translation we usually hear is from the Latin, a literal translation that means "to cut around."
You'll also find  this familiar section of the V'ahavta -
     18 Therefore impress these My words upon your very heart: bind them as a sign on your hand and let them serve as a -symbol on your forehead, 19 and teach them to your children — reciting them when you stay at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you get up; 20 and inscribe them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates — 21 to the end that you and your children may endure, in the land that the Lord swore to your fathers to assign to them, as long as there is a heaven over the earth.
Again, we are presented with a "Ripped from Today's Headlines" section about possessing the Land.  If we read it, then perhaps we can begin to understand why in Israel today, the Ultra-Orthodox feel that they contribute to Israel's existence by praying and observing the Mitzvot. 
Finally, we are reminded that Israel as a home for the Jews goes back before 1948.

22 If, then, you faithfully keep all this Instruction that I command you, loving the Lord your God, walking in all His ways, and holding fast to Him, 23 the Lord will dislodge before you all these nations: you will dispossess nations greater and more numerous than you. 24 Every spot on which your foot treads shall be yours; your territory shall extend from the wilderness to the Lebanon and from the River — the Euphrates — to the Western Sea. 25 No man shall stand up to you: the Lord your God will put the dread and the fear of you over the whole land in which you set foot, as He promised you.

 Let me leave you with some lyrics from the score of the film classic Exodus.  "This land is mine, God gave this land to me, 
This brave and ancient land to me."  
Let these words be a mantra that we repeat over and over again as we read and listen to the news.  Between cease-fires and negotiations let's not forget how long our attachment to this specific piece of real estate has been.  
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Rose

Friday, August 1, 2014

This Week's Torah Portion: Deuteronomy 1:1 - 3:22

This week we begin the fifth and final book of the Torah, D'varim or, in English, Deuteronomy. This week's portion reads like bullet points for the events that we have been reading regarding which specific territory we are to fight for, which ones we are NOT to fight for, who will be permitted to enter the Promised Land and who will not. It is concise, which makes it a narrative easy to memorize and pass on to the next generation.

This portion even discusses GAZA! Our troubles are as recent as today and as distant as thousands of years ago.

The Promised Land was fought hard for... and continues to be.

Shabbat Shalom,  Rabbi Rose

Thursday, July 24, 2014

This Week's Torah Portion: Numbers 33:1 - 36:13

Again, because it falls during the summer, we rarely hear about or study this portion.  Within the portion is a total accounting of each leg of the journey from Egypt, with the location of each and every pit-stop along the way.  It is, for this next generation, an accounting of their parents' historic 40 year journey.

Take the time to read the next section which gives, in excruciatingly minute detail the boundaries of God's "promised land" ... This part of the Torah is a legal document, and gives the exact lines of demarcation of the new country  where the Jews are to live.

After being given their new map, God goes on to explain how they need to conquer the land. Given the current state of affairs in Israel, it is extremely unsettling to read the ancient dictate:

 51 Speak to the Israelite people and say to them: When you cross the Jordan into the land of Canaan, 52 you shall dispossess all the inhabitants of the land; you shall destroy all their figured objects; you shall destroy all their molten images, and you shall demolish all their cult places. 53And you shall take possession of the land and settle in it, for I have assigned the land to you to possess.

....But if you do not dispossess the inhabitants of the land, those whom you allow to remain shall be stings in your eyes and thorns in your sides, and they shall harass you in the land in which you live; 56 

As the French say, "the more things change, the more they stay the same."
Please remember the State of Israel in your thoughts and prayers.
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Rose

Friday, July 18, 2014

This week's Torah portion: Mattot Numbers 30:2 - 32:421

"(the meat of the portion starts with chapter 31)
"And now... for the bloody truth about acquiring the Promised Land. 

"People in Torah Study groups are often amazed, conflicted, caught unaware, and pretty much blown away by Mattot in the Book of Numbers. Because this parasha is read in the summer, when we weren't in Hebrew School, it isn't often taught in Hebrew School. So, we, as adults, are shocked to find out how bloody the conquest of "The Promised Land" actually was.  In Mattot we learn the details of this amazing military campaign. God lets Moses know that after Moses "avenges the Israelite people on the Midianites; then you shall be gathered to your kin. "There is a "call up" of 12,000 soldiers from the tribes.Thousands upon thousands of Midianites are slaughtered... including women and children. Curiously, when the fighting is over, it is discovered that not a single Israelite was killed.  
"There is also some interesting psychological manipulation done when two of the tribes, who keep cattle and find good grazing ground on the near side of the Jordan, announce that they prefer to NOT cross the Jordan.  God pretty much says... you can't just "not go" and leave your brothers to hang!  So, cattle, wives and children are left behind in fortified encampments while the men cross over and fight alongside the other tribes to conquer the land.
"Certainly there is enough drama here for an HBO series."

Shabbat Shalom, 
Rabbi Rose

Friday, May 30, 2014

The Purest Democracy


Eloquently Voiced by a Rabbis Sermon on Iwo Jima



Memorial Day Weekend in DC was a holiday filled with flags, wreaths, speeches, and concerts. This past Sunday and Monday, veterans came wearing caps, T-shirts and parts of uniforms from their wars.At the Nurses Memorial, a special sisterhood collected. Women in their 60s wearing floppy hats covered with pins and badges greeted each other with warm and knowing hugs. The line to file by names on the Vietnam Memorial snaked slowly. At the Korean memorial hulking figures slogged through a bitter Korean winter and walls of faces stared back from the granite, faces as young as the day they served. Vets of the Greatest Generationvisited the WWII Memorial: its two 43-foot tall pavilions proclaimed American victory on the Atlantic and Pacific frontson land, at sea, and in the air. And all the while, reverberating through DC was the sound of Rolling Thunders 6,000 motorcyclists; here to remember the M.I.A.s and POWs, and this year, to protest care in VA hospitals.



Across the bridge lies Arlington National Cemetery and adjacent to it stands the Marine Corps Memorial, aka the Iwo Jima Memorial, with its iconic image of Marines raising the American flag. Inscribed at its base is Admiral Nimitzs tribute to the men who fought there:   "Uncommon Valor Was A Common Virtue."



Iwo Jima was one of the bloodiest battles of the Pacific Theater, and a young rabbi from New York, Lieutenant Roland Bertram Gittelsohn, was the only Jewish Navy chaplain to land there with the Fifth Division. Charged with ministering to Jewish (approximately 1,500) and Gentile (approximately 70,000) troops, he leapt from foxhole to foxhole in the heat of battle, earning three ribbons for bravery. After five torturous weeks, and 26,000 Marine casualties, the fighting ended.



There was to be a non-denominational ceremony to dedicate the Marine Cemetery. Division Chaplain Warren Cuthriell, a Protestant minister, asked Rabbi Gittelsohn to deliver the memorial sermon. Chaplin Cuthriell wanted all the fallen Marines, black and white, Protestant, Catholic and Jewish honored in a single ceremony.  That was not to be. The majority of Christian chaplains objected to having a rabbi preach over predominantly Christian graves and threatened to boycott the ceremony.  The Catholic Chaplains could not participate with non-Catholics, be they Jewish or Christian. 



Not wanting the service boycotted, and not wanting to tarnish Chaplain Cuthriells reputation, Rabbi Gittelsohn declined the invitation. So, instead of one unifying ceremony, there were three. Even in death, there was division.



Rabbi Gittelsohn gave the address that he had written for the non-denominational service to a gathering of Jewish servicemen.  Two Protestant ministers attended.  They were so moved by Rabbi Gittelsohns words, that they asked for the onionskin copy of the original speech that they reproduced in the thousands and gave to the troops.  Many of these Marines, in turn, mailed the sermon home, where it was picked up by the wire services and subsequently read and heard around the world.  It has been said that this poignant speech is second only to Lincolns Gettysburg Address, as a eulogy to the fallen. 


I have chosen several of the most moving passages to share with you and hope that you will find time to read the complete address at some later date.  Here are the words of 35-year-old Rabbi Ronald Bertram Gittelsohn, spoken at Iwo Jima.



 THIS IS PERHAPS THE GRIMMEST, and surely the holiest task we have faced since D-Day. Here before us lie the bodies of comrades and friends. Men who until yesterday or last week laughed with us, joked with us, trained with us. Men who were on the same ships with us, and went over the sides with us, as we prepared to hit the beaches of this island. Men who fought with us and feared with us. Somewhere in this plot of ground there may lie the individual who could have discovered the cure for cancer. Under one of these Christian crosses, or beneath a Jewish Star of David, there may rest now an individual who was destined to be a great prophet to find the way, perhaps, for all to live in plenty, with poverty and hardship for none. Now they lie here silently in this sacred soil, and we gather to consecrate this earth in their memory.



Here lie men who loved America because their ancestorsgenerations ago helped in her founding. And other men who loved her with equal passion because they themselves or their own fathers escaped from oppression to her blessed shores. Here lie officers and men, Negroes and Whites, rich men and poor, together. Here are Protestants, Catholics, and Jews together. Here no man prefers another because of his faith or despises him because of his color. Here there are no quotas of how many from each group are admitted or allowed. Among these men there is no discrimination. No prejudices. No hatred. Theirs is the highest and purest democracy.



Whosoever of us lifts his hand in hate against a brother, or who thinks himself superior to those who happen to be in the minority, makes of this ceremony and the bloody sacrifice it commemorates, an empty, hollow mockery. To this then, as our solemn sacred duty, do we the living now dedicate ourselves: To the right of Protestants, Catholics, and Jews, of White men and Negroes alike, to enjoy the democracy for which all of them have here paid the price...



We here solemnly swear this shall not be in vain. Out of this and from the suffering and sorrow of those who mourn this, will come, we promise, the birth of a new freedom for the sons of men everywhere.



I wish these words were carved on a monument in Washington or be found at every memorial that honors military service.  I wish it could be posted at the gates of every U.S. military cemetery. Rabbi Gittelsohns words should be part of every civics class, and memorized by generations along with Lincolns Gettysburg Address and Patrick Henrys Give me Liberty or Give me Death speech, and perhaps, be part of the swearing in of each new American Citizen.


Sometimes, we just need to be reminded of what the sacrifice was for.



Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Rose

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Yom Yerushalayim – Jerusalem Unification Day


 Forty-Seven Years Ago A Great Miracle Happened There


Once you reach a certain age, and trust me, that age will come, you develop a heightened awareness of how things have changed in your lifetime. The time isn’t so far in front of you when you will catch yourself saying, “when I was a kid” or “back in the day.” Should you try to share the information, you may be met with an eager audience, or a blank stare.

Three things of note have changed in my lifetime.  In 1972 I passed over the Berlin Wall from West Berlin to Communist East Berlin. It was an “Oz-like” experience in reverse. In the original film, Kansas is filmed in black and white and Oz in Technicolor. But in this case, I entered the checkpoint from Technicolor, modern, rebuilt West Berlin and exited into Soviet era black and white and gray.  And now, The Berlin Wall is gone.  Germany is unified.  There is no Communism. And the era has passed to a footnote in history.

In 1967 Hong Kong belonged to Great Britain. Today, it belongs to China.  In 1967 I visited Hong Kong, but as a US citizen, I couldn’t visit China.  The US didn’t have diplomatic or trade relations with China.  Today, Americans travel freely in China and the Communism of Chairman Mao is ancient history. All I could do back then was peer into Communist China from the Territory of Kowloon.

As a Jew, however, there is one significant event that stands out above all others.  That would be the Reunification of Jerusalem during the Six Day War in June of 1967.  On the second day of the war, Israeli forces gained control of the Western Wall of the Temple and the Temple Mount once again.  It had been in Jordanian hands since 1948, and Jews had been unable to pray there. The single most recognizable image of the day is the iconic photograph of six Israeli paratroopers looking up, standing next to the massive stones of the Kotel.

In 1968, I had the opportunity to travel to Jerusalem. The Western Wall, the Kotel, had not yet been turned into a tourist plaza. Although the Old City didn’t look exactly “biblical” it certainly resembled a drawing from the Ottoman Period.  Destruction and neglect were everywhere, yet there was quiet excitement in the air as we passed over the rubble of the wall that had separated East and West Jerusalem.

Although Yom Yerushalayim, which will be observed in Israel this Wednesday, May 28th, is not a religious holiday, it is certainly a day of religious and political significance to Jews all over the world.  Jews have faced east to Jerusalem in prayer since time immemorial. We have yearned for a return to Jerusalem.  Jerusalem is woven into our texts, our prayers, and repeatedly spoken of by our prophets and sages. “Next Year in Jerusalem” has always been the ending of our Passover Seder.

Throughout my thirty-year teaching career, I tell the story of Jerusalem as often as possible, to each class of students.  My story always begins the same way. “When I was a little girl, I couldn’t visit Jerusalem or pray at the Western Wall.”  I’m always met with an incredulous stare, as if I was talking about outer space.  “But WHY?” Children always asked, “but why?” because they could not imagine the State of Israel without Jerusalem.  In their minds, it had always been there and always would be.  They have only known a world with Jerusalem as a holy, Jewish and accessible place.

We must safeguard Jerusalem, so that future generations will have access to her. We want to ensure that our children and our children’s children will never have to say, “When I was a kid, we used to be able to pray in Jerusalem, but no more.”

Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Rose



Friday, May 16, 2014

Finally a New High-Tech Solution to Help Israeli Fire Officials Predict Fires, As Hundreds of Thousands Celebrate Lag b’Omer with Bonfires



 “Based on traffic reports, congestion, weather and wind conditions, the level of moisture in the ground in each part of the country, and incidents that are phoned in, we know how many firefighters we will need to deploy in Meron or in central Tel Aviv, and whether they need to be deployed right at the site or can be held back in case of emergency. When you have a lot of people and a lot of bonfires, you know something bad is likely to happen, but with Matash, we can determine more closely where that bad thing might take place, and be ready for it.” Times of Israel

Bonfires.  We’re not talking “fire pits” in the backyard.  We are talking about flames leaping around an impressive stack of wood, lighting up the night.  In the town of Meron, hundreds of thousands of ultra-Orthodox families will camp near the tomb of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai on Mt. Meron and light bonfires.  In Jerusalem and Tel Aviv and cities and towns throughout Israel, children will scavenge wood from construction sites and set their bonfires ablaze.  Soldiers throughout the state will build them with wood, pride and camaraderie.

Fire as a symbol goes back to the earliest roots of our religion.  God spoke to Moses from within a burning bush.  We were instructed to keep a fire burning at all times on the altar of the Tabernacle in the desert. The lamp in the Holy of Holies was to be lit at all times, a tradition we carry on even today with a Ner Tamid above our Ark.  The Israelites were led through the Wilderness by a pillar of fire.  And fire is a symbol of passion, hence the phrase “Aish HaTorah” “Flame of the Torah.”  Jews have died a martyr’s death wrapped in Torah scrolls and burned at the stake.  Whole communities have been locked in synagogues and set ablaze. At Yad Veshem’s Hall of Remembrance The Eternal Flame, burning from a base fashioned like a broken bronze goblet continuously illuminates the smooth stones on which are engraved the names of concentration camps.

What drives so many Jews to celebrate this minor holiday regardless of their religious or secular affiliations? Perhaps the flame meets a need for a symbol to which Jews in every generation can attach their own significance, but which brings with it a feeling of unity.

Now, more than ever, as Jews we need to find a common ground, a common torch in which to place that flame. In both the State of Israel and the U.S. our Jewish brethren have become diverse, fragmented, antagonistic, even hostile. Having defeated our external foes, we fight amongst ourselves, even as our own survival is at stake.  In Israel, the Jewish State, Jew is pitted against Jew in a struggle for both religious and political power.  In America, Jews no longer even make a show of unity. The cohesion of the immigrant experience that bound us together has been lost, as well as the ability to put aside differences to bring about and sustain the newborn State of Israel.  Today, when polled on our Jewish Affiliation, too often we check the box that says, “none.”

If we are to survive as a people, a nation, a religion, an ethnicity, or however we chose to define ourselves, we must find a way to rekindle and sustain the flame at the core of Jewish peoplehood. As we observe Lag B’Omer, each Jew should take the time to look within the flames and rekindle within their own heart, the spark that will ignite, once again, unity among the Jewish People.

Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Rose

Friday, May 9, 2014

MOTHERS DAY – YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE JEWISH, BUT IT WOULDN’T HURT!




To prepare for Mothers Day, I cranked up the old Victrola and listened to “My Yiddishe Momma.”  Well, actually it was a Neil Sedaka CD, but it could have been any version of this oft recorded sentimental ode to Jewish Motherhood. Recordings run the gamut from the Yiddish version by Cantor Yossele Rosenblatt, to Sophie Tucker, Connie Francis and Tom Jones in English. From Charles Aznavour, in French to Ray Charles on “The Nanny.”  Here is one verse, from the English version: 

How few were her pleasures
She never cared for fashion styles
Her jewels and her treasures
She found them in her baby's smiles
Oh I know that I owe what I am today
To that dear little lady who's gone away
To that wonderful Yiddishe momme
momme, momme of mine

Trust me, this is tame compared to the Yiddish version that talks about her going through “fire and water” for her children.

Jewish mothers have gotten a bum wrap thanks to Jewish-American books, plays and movies written by, you guessed it, Jews with mothers. It is a uniquely American sentiment… it didn’t exist in “the old country” where survival often depended on that strong woman’s intellect and tenacity. 

It is my sincere hope that the era of Jewish Mother bashing is coming to a close and that the Jewish Mother stereotype, along with that of the Jewish Princess and Domineering Jewish Wife can finally be put to rest.  It is interesting to note that the word “stereotype” had its beginning in the world of printing.  It was a process developed in France that enabled printers to create a plate that could be used to get the exact same image over and over again. It is also where we get the word cliché, which was the sound the machine made as the paper went through. Our modern stereotypes are just as inflexible

In 2013, six out of twelve Nobel laureates were Jewish. Since the prize was first awarded in 1901 approximately 193 of 855 honors (22%) have been Jewish.  Note: Jews currently make up less than 0.2% of the global population.  What did they all have in common? A high I.Q. no doubt, and Jewish mothers!

Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg had a Jewish mother.  Her mom scrimped and saved and searched for bargains to put money away for Ruth’s education. Her mom died during Ruth’s senior year of high school, but not before her mom had inculcated her with an amazing value system.

Pianist and conductor Leonard Bernstein had a Jewish mother.  She put her foot down and told little Lenny that he couldn’t play baseball with the other kids because he might hurt his hands.  Good call Mrs. Bernstein.

Violinist Yitzhak Perlman’s mother might be called a ‘helicopter mom’ today.  She “hovered over” her son while he recovered from childhood polio, and insisted in raising him so that he did not feel “handicapped” even though he could only walk with crutches. When he won a chance to play on the Ed Sullivan show at age 13, she came with him from their home in Israel. They were poor and his mother couldn’t speak English.  They lived on sardines in New York… but Itzhak got a scholarship to Julliard, and things worked out nicely.

I might go on and on about Jewish Mothers in anticipation of Mothers Day, but for an amazing sound bite this week.  You might have heard part of it on the radio, or on TV, or have seen it on the Internet.  It is a moving tribute to one man’s love and respect for his mother, and speaks to the universal theme of maternal self-sacrifice. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house, or in the newsroom or on the Internet when NBA player Kevin Durant, the 25-year-old Oklahoma City Thunder power forward, received his first Most Valuable Player Award.  After thanking each and every person who had made his success possible, he turned to thank his mother with these words:

 “You kept us off the street; put clothes on our backs, food on the table. When you didn't eat, you made sure we ate. You went to sleep hungry. You sacrificed for us. You're the real MVP."

He sobbed as he spoke.  Kevin makes over $30 million a year, and the MVP award might have gone to his head.  But instead, this very fine young man had prefaced his words by saying to those around him,

 "When something good happens to you, I don't know about you guys, but I tend to look back to what brought me here. (to his mom) You woke me up in the middle of the night in the summer times, making me run up a hill, making me do push-ups, screaming at me from the sidelines at my games at 8 or 9 years old.

Kevin’s heartfelt tribute to his mother, Wanda Pratt, went way past the biblical commandment to honor and respect one’s mother. As for Wanda Pratt, she certainly sounds like a self-sacrificing mother who would have done anything to build her child’s self esteem and help her child succeed. Oy, such a Jewish Mother! 

This Mothers Day, we acknowledge all our moms, and those “mom figures” in our lives that have taken over the role at various moments. Motherhood. It’s a difficult job, but someone’s gotta do it!

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Rose





Friday, May 2, 2014

KAROL WOJTYLA – BEFORE HE WAS A SAINT, HE WAS A MENSCH!




Talk about the “fast track to Sainthood! Pope John Paul II died in 2005. The Vatican waived the traditional five-year waiting period and started the paperwork ASAP and last week, only nine years after his death, he was pronounced Saint Pope John Paul II by the current pope!

It was “touch and go” there for a bit. You see it takes two confirmed miracles to start on the road to canonization. The Vatican’s definition of a miracle is the reversal of a medical condition that is sudden, complete, permanent and inexplicable.

He was fine on miracle number one, the total cure of a French nun suffering from Parkinson’s. However finding that second miracle was proving tricky. Then, this past July, another miracle came to light when a woman in Costa Rica, who was on death’s door with a brain aneurism, made a complete recovery after praying to the deceased Pope John Paul. Her recovery was vetted by Vatican physicians and BINGO!  Welcome St. Pope John Paul II!

I’m glad it all worked out in the end, because I have always been extremely fond of Pope John Paul II. I only wish I could have been on the nominating committee to help find those “miracles.”  Sure, I’m a rabbi in a small town in Virginia, and I’ve only spent a brief time in a convent, (an Episcopal convent, at that) but I would have gladly told them that in MY book, he was a “saint” and an “angel” and most importantly, a MENSCH long before he put on the White Mitre and moved to Vatican City.  He was already a MENSCH as the young man Karol Wojtyla, a young seminarian in Poland,

How many acts of MENSCH-HOOD did this man of God do?  According to research done by B’nai B’rith, there are a number of accounts of the young Polish priest intervening on behalf of Jews in Poland during the war and they believe that we will probably never know the extent of his decency and courage.  But for now, let me share two brief accounts which, though not the kind of miracles that count toward Sainthood, they are DEFINITELY the kind of ethical and morally decisive actions for which we, as members of the Jewish faith, can do no less than confer MENSCH-HOOD.

A 14-year-old Jewish girl named Edith Zierer, having just escaped from a Nazi labor camp, collapsed on a railway platform while Wojtyla was at the station. No one attended to her. Everyone ignored her. But he picked her up and carried her to the train, gave her food, and stayed with her until they reached Krakow where she had family.  She didn’t see him again until he became Pope John Paul II.  Edith credited the then future Pope with saving her life.

In 1942 the future Pope rescued a two-year-old Jewish boy by giving him to a gentile couple to be hidden.  The boy’s parents had died during the Holocaust, and after the war, the Catholic couple came to Wojtyla to baptize the boy.  He refused, (as he had refused other such requests) stating that the boy should be raised in the faith of his parents. He then arranged for the child to be sent to America where he could be raised by Jewish relatives.

Where did this deep-seated goodness come from?  Where did this kindness towards Jews come from at a time when it would have been so easy to turn away? What allowed his moral and ethical maturity to shine forth in one so young at the darkest of times?

Perhaps we can find the answer in the words of The Pirkei Avot, “Sayings of the Fathers,” a tractate of Mishna that deals specifically with matters of ethical behavior. The Hebrew, found in Pirke Avot 2:6 states: B’makom sh’ayn anasheem, heesh-ta dahl eesh. “ Where there are no men (persons) of character strive to be a man (person) of character.”  We are more familiar with the “Yinglish” version of this… “Where there are no MENSCHES, strive to be a MENSCH!”

Once, a long time ago, the young Karol Wojytola had a close circle of Jewish friends.  He witnessed, first hand, the ever-tightening noose around the necks of the Jews.  He saw people murdered in the street.  He understood the danger and yet, his actions and deeds proved that he was a Mensch.

He continued to “strive” towards Mensch-hood throughout his life, as he rose to higher and higher positions in the Church, and once he reached the pinnacle of Papal Power, he became the first Pope to address the ugly shadow that had hung over Catholic-Jewish relations since the war years, when Pope Pius XII was the Bishop of Rome. The healing process and apologies were very public and very sincere and included a pilgrimage to Israel and Yad VaShem,  (The Holocaust Museum in Jerusalem) accompanied by his Jewish childhood friend Jerzy Kluger with whom he was reunited in 1965.

As I said earlier, no one at the Vatican consulted me about either Miracles or Mensch-hood.  However, I would like to put in a good word for another “Saint-on-hold “ – Mother Theresa.
She was in “mensch-mode” from 1948 until her death in 1997.  Don’t take my word for it, for being a “Total Mensch” they gave her the Nobel Peace Prize. So, while the Vatican is still looking for that “second miracle” we can give her the Pirke Avot Award, for being a person of character in a world, and at a time when there are just not enough Mensches.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Rabbi Rose


Saturday, April 26, 2014

Here is What is Missing From Our Passover Observance! Mimouna and Muffletas!

I always felt that something was missing from Passover. After all the “work up” to the holiday, the cleaning, the cooking, purging my house, truck and car of chumatz and all that effort to live in a “leaven-free environment,” Passover comes to such an abrupt end. After the “Sedar High” of being with friends and family and reliving the Exodus from Egypt, we go to the all time “low” of “chumetz - induced social isolation” and meals of “Kosher-for-Passover” ersatz food.

A few days before the end of Passover that little voice in the back of your head says, “ENOUGH ALREADY.” Then, you look at the calendar and try to figure what the LAST DAY actually is! Does your calendar know that Jewish holidays begin and end at sundown? Does it take into account that Jews in Israel celebrate fewer days than Jews in the Diaspora, or that Reform Jews observe fewer days than Conservative or Orthodox Jews in the US? Finally, you count the hours until the traditional end-of-Passover meal… PIZZA! Somehow, eating pizza, even as a communal activity, is just such a let down.

Well, I’ll tell you what is NOT on your calendar. The Jewish holiday of Mimouna! Not only isn’t it on your secular calendar, but it isn’t on your Jewish calendar either. It IS, however, a national holiday on the calendar in Israel and has been since the 50’s. Originally a Moroccan Jewish festival, it spread throughout the Sephardic (Jews of Spanish descent) and Mizrachi (Jews of eastern Muslim countries) communities in addition to those who came from the Mahgreb (North Africa).

Mimouna is a festive conclusion of Passover, as well as a celebration of Spring, renewal and CHAMETZ! Friends, family, and communities, gather to eat food that was forbidden during Passover. The key food is called a “muffleta,” which is a large, North African thin pancake (kind of like a giant crepe made from stretched dough and cooked in a frying pan) drizzled with honey-water. They are made in huge stacks and consumed in massive quantities. (While I sit eating Pizza from a cardboard box, my Sephardic friends send excited emails about their celebrations, I can only imagine the festivities while watching Youtube videos of women stretching and cooking their muffletas.)

What once was a friendly home observance is becoming politically and socially charged in Israel these days. National politicians flock to impoverished and unemployment-ridden cities like Lod and or Akiva, areas where Jews from Muslim countries were originally settled after being forced to flee their native Muslim homelands, as well as a variety of ‘development towns’ on Mimouna night for “photo ops” with local politicians wearing the traditional red tarboosh (fez).

But this year, there was a new and very positive twist on this very old tradition, or perhaps, a revitalization of the original custom. Originally, the Mimouna was a holiday that marked the good relations between Jews and their Muslim neighbors in Morocco. At the end of Passover, Jews would once again open their homes and their Muslim neighbors would bring presents and flour to prepare muflettas. In that same spirit, IRAC, the Israel Religious Action Center- of The Israel Movement for Pluralistic Judaism, is seeking to revitalize the original spirit of the festival as part of an initiative to create positive interactions between Jews and Arabs in Israel. They organized Mimouna festivities in Jerusalem and in Yaffo, where Jews and Arabs joined in eating mufflettas together. There was Eastern and Arabic music, and storytellers on hand to talk about the coexistence that once prevailed between Jews and Muslims in North Africa. It was a small step, but even small steps can bring people closer together, a little at a time.

I think we have a lot to learn from this festive moment on the Israeli calendar, a moment that should be reflected on all Jewish calendars in the Diaspora as well. We are a diverse people, with so much richness to share within the “multi-plex” that is Judaism. By only embracing the customs of Ashkenasic Judaism, we sell ourselves, and our joint heritage short, and miss the opportunity to expand our knowledge, our compassion, and our understanding of who we are, where we have come from, and where we are going.

Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Rose

Sunday, April 20, 2014

WEGMAN’S IN GAINESVILLE SENDS A BIG “THANK YOU TO Fauquier Jewish Congregation” and we say “BACK AT YA!”

Rabbi’s Corner April 18, 2014 The Kosher Deli Counter at Wegman’s in Gainesville, Virginia can be a pretty lonely place. In fact, there was talk about downsizing or eliminating it. But this Passover, our membership let Wegman’s know that there ARE Jews out here! The staff and management are thrilled with the patronage of our community during the Passover season, and send us a big “THANK YOU.” When I visited before the holiday, I mentioned how difficult it was to find all the Kosher for Passover items in the store, since they were so spread out in different departments. I suggested to the manager that a sign might be helpful. When I returned a few days later, there was wonderful, professional signage in various locations with instructions on where to find additional Passover goods. While not under rabbinical supervision, Wegman’s sends its staff to school to study the laws of Kashrut and food preparation. The deli case was cleaned for Passover and paper lined the case, as is the custom. All foods in the deli case were prepared according to Passover Kashrut practices. Unlike last year, when Passover sales were so disappointing, with very slow or non-existent sales, this year, Passover foods were flying off the shelves, and out of the coolers and freezers. The Kosher Deli sold ten pounds of cooked brisket and a whole turkey within minutes of putting them in the case! Tzimmes, matzah balls, stuffed cabbage and salads rounded out the display. They even had fresh, already assembled Seder Plates, with horseradish, parsley, shank bone, hardboiled egg and charoset! When patrons were asked, “how did you find out about our Passover foods?” the response was, “through the Fauquier Jewish Congregation!” What a warm and wonderful relationship we are building for the future of the Jewish Community in our neck of the woods. Some of you already know that Gary and I “hang out” at the “Kosher for Passover” display at the back of the store, where we schmooze Jews and hand out business cards. I call it “trolling for Jews.” We get to meet very nice people who are very surprised to hear that FJC exists. We know from demographic information given to us from the Northern Virginia Jewish Community Center that Jewish migration is heading our way in significant numbers. Wegman’s Kosher section sends a very important signal to those families seeking a Jewish life in our part of Virginia. That is why I ask each and every one of you to make it your business to purchase a few items from the Kosher areas of the store whether or not you adhere to the Laws of Kashrut! Your patronage will ensure that you as well as future Jewish families will be able to have more of our needs met locally, and send the message that WE ARE HERE! I’m not receiving any endorsement money from Wegman’s, but it is my sole source for kosher corned beef and picked tomatoes. As we await spring temperatures and the end of Passover, I wish all of you, Rabbi Rose